I read a quote recently that said if marriage was at an all time low and most people were looking at marriage as a window of opportunity (a few years of love, sex, and security), rather than a lifelong commitment. Divorces are up, among boomers as well as other groups, and dating is today’s most…Details
We belong to a large camping community we we have our cottage near Calabogie Ontario in the Lanark Highlands. It’s a gorgeous spot with 150 foot pristine lake, granite outcropping and a spectacular hardwood forest. As my friend Tony says “the only thing that keeps it from absolute paradise and being swarmed by people are…Details
Another week, another new study. This one from Vancouver where PHD candidate Cindy Masaro talks to women over 30 about their online dating history. As well as their sexual health histories. It turns out that women over 35 may be feeling that instant spark when we start corresponding with someone online, and not doing or…Details
There has been so much written about women and hormonal imbalances. In fact I am so convinced that hormone problems are at the root of so many lifestyle issues with women and have been grossly misdiagnosed. Depression, anger, sleep problems sex drive, moodiness, weight etc can all be attributed to a misplaced (or misdiagnosed) hormonal…Details
I had a chance to go to the premiere of the Green Lantern movie out this week. I was accompanied by my 12 year old son (who thought the special effects were too cool), my sweetie (see previous statement- boys like cool effects), and his 21 daughter. She and I were busy ogling Ryan Reynalds…Details
Here’s how to start a dating ad. Use of an eye-catching headline. Three key tips. I think it is so important to have three key things when online dating. An anonymous email address that acts like your “handle”. Think ice email@example.com, or girlinyellowboots@hotmail. It keeps you safe, it tells the other person about you, and…Details
Do ou feel like you never see your partner? How to keep your mariage spicy when you have different schedules.
One of the most common reasons cited in divorce cases according to my sister-in-law the brilliant family lawyer (pender-leef.com if you need a pit bull in lipstick) is “drifting apart”. Most people get married to spend their life with their partner. If they are always away, or doing things apart, the marriage drifts away. So…Details
It’s described as the definitive new book about sex after 60. “Unblinkingly honest and painstakingly researched, Naked at Our Age spares no detail in addressing the challenges and joys of pursuing love and sex late in life.” I liked this book as a model for sex once you are eligible for a senior’s discount. What…Details
Body Language is 85% of communication between partners. The top 10 tips for improving non-verbal communication with your spouse.
I love quick, simple, effective ways to improve relationships. I think everyone does. But I get turned off platitudes- you know the “light a candle- it will fix your romance problems” kind of pat advice. So I keep a running list of great suggestions that actually work. Quick certainly works on my radio show, and…Details
I’m hosting a murder mystery tonight with lots of great food. A little disorganized, a little off the cuff but with some great foods. Here’s the scene. It’s 1937, and you are invited to dine in the lush wine country of France. The evening takes a mysterious turn when the host is found murdered. All…Details