I was speaking to a girfriend this week who was doing the “bah humbug” thing about Valentine’s Day. She’s a senior IT manager and spends her days travelling the world doing corporate take overs. Attractive, successful she is strong and makes no apologies about it. Yet she has had such little success in the dating…Details
I wrote earlier about the chemical make up of tears, and how crying can act like a big pail of cold water on libido’s. But how do you use chemistry to attract a partner? Especially for women for whom smell is a huge attractor, promoting the human phermone (or sexual attraction smell) can be huge.…Details
Sue McGarvie your sassy sex and relationship therapist The day after Valentine’s Day and you are recovering from too much wine, chocolate and positive attention. Or is that just me? If you didn’t get anything for Valentine’s Day (and cried about it) your partner probably didn’t get much action last night. A new study The…Details
Happy Valentine’s Day! Why you should get naked, get more sleep and tell your partner your secret fantasy
Happy Valentine’s Day! I hope you are enjoying it with your sweetie! Like most parents, I’m waiting until bedtime hoping to get some romance. I had a night of dancing and a homemade “hallmark card”. I am reminded that Valentine’s Day is about showing some appreciation with your partner and saying “I would marry you…Details
So Valentine’s Day is almost upon us. And you want to guarantee a successful encounter in the bedroom. How do you set the stage for romance? Here are my thoughts on the subject: As a woman, you are turned on by what you hear and what you imagine. Hw about a disk of sexy music…Details
I always have mixed feelings about Suzanne Sommers. I admire her marketing prowess, her ability to stand up for what she beleives in, and her insight into bio-identical hormones. I find her incredibly commercial. You can buy everything from her lipstick to her necklace, clothes, thigh-master, to de-toxing patches. Hre credibility becomes suspect when she…Details
I just finished the new CINCH diet book by Cynthia Sass. Loads of the same whole foods, no diet pop (or soda of anykind), green leafy veggies that most books talk about. However, I think she has some suggestions that I talk about in my book The Libido Diet, that help kick start your sex…Details
Why so many women have given up on online dating. How to find the guy and avoid the blind date from Hell.
I was having lunch yesterday with two single women in their late 30’s. We were talking about some of the bad first dates we’ve had. Smelly guys, ones that brush your breasts “by accident”, ones that only talk about themselves (or thier ex’s). I had one guy who drank like a fish and made Star…Details
During the research for the Libido Diet, I kept looking for foods that would manage my weight and help kick start those sexy hormones. It was what I saw in my practice all day long. I know that if I don’t manage my food, my weight immediately shoots up and my libido goes down. It’s…Details
Why Facebook dates, massage parlours and the local escorts are doing a booming business with your husband.
You may not know this but it is completely legal to visit a hooker in Canada. This past summer the Ontario Court of Appeals threw out the prostitution law as unconstitutional. The Government is scrambling to come up with a new one but in the meantime, police chiefs across the country have said they won’t…Details