The timing of sex

There is something so absolutely decadent about an afternoon boff or nooner, on a day when one is supose to be hard at work. I wondered how many other women thought that mid afternoon was the perfect time to engage?  A quick google search and 36% of women said afternoon or late afternoon was the…

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The etiquette of blow jobs

Blow jobs…. Not the topic of conversation at most dinner parties, (except maybe some of the dinner parties I’ve been invited to recently…). I was thinking today about the etiquette of "being in a social situation with something in your mouth…." I was reading Nicole Beland (one of the sex journalists at Men’s Health mag),…

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Why hot sex gets hotter after 40

There is a belief put forward by sex experts that women reach their sexual peak somewhere starting in their late 30’s and ending anywhere from their 40’s to menopause depending on who you read. That’s not much consolation to the 20 odd million women with inhibited sex drive, who fall into bed every night dry…

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a New Year, time for more sex

It’s been a crazy time. I’ve moved, re-invented myself, re-organized my life, and am now looking at the beginning of an incredible year. I was at a New Year’s Eve party last night and asked this crazy Californian if he had any resolutions. He resolved to have less drama in his life, and I thought…

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