Why hot sex gets hotter after 40

There is a belief put forward by sex experts that women reach their sexual peak somewhere starting in their late 30’s and ending anywhere from their 40’s to menopause depending on who you read. That’s not much consolation to the 20 odd million women with inhibited sex drive, who fall into bed every night dry…

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a New Year, time for more sex

It’s been a crazy time. I’ve moved, re-invented myself, re-organized my life, and am now looking at the beginning of an incredible year. I was at a New Year’s Eve party last night and asked this crazy Californian if he had any resolutions. He resolved to have less drama in his life, and I thought…

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Its all about my piggy’s

   I’m a little vain about my toes. Cute, well cared for, (a bit beat up because of high heel blisters, and walking barefoot for six months of the year), but they are symmetrical, and they do me well. Considering I’ve had my figure faults, having a feature that a few patients of mine  went…

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Air conditioned ejaculations

I’ve heard of something new sexually that I hadn’t heard of before. I have a friend (yes, a friend), that tells of his difficulty in ejaculating when his body temperature is elevated. He can become like the energizer bunny thrusting away, and can get close, but the orgasm won’t trip if he is at all…

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Another conversation about blowjobs

I sometimes wonder if anyone else has these surreal conversations. I assume they do, as I think of myself as an ordinary girl with a cool job, and a mind that’s just open to possibilities. It just opens to sex more often than not. Here’s the scenario: I’m standing around watching a kids football game…

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