The mysterious vulva folds

I was reminded this weekend that everyone is unique and that sexuality is a fluid and never a "one size fits all" brush". You would think that given how many people with different issues that I treat,  that the indiviual preference and variety of responses would be top of mind.  But the cool thing about…

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in quest of good prose

I’ve taken to buying a few more books of erotic literature lately. Mainly short stories, (light bedtime reading), and a few "grown-up fairy tales" tops the list of recent purchases. Creative, well-written erotica will get me hotter than any porn movie ever has. Like most women, I’m turned on by what I hear, and imagine…

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The tell

I guess not everyone is like this, but I have a "tell". You know, the thing that good poker players can detect you do if you are have a great or terrible hand of cards. Holding your breath, look down and to the right when you unfold your cards, anything that gives your opponents a…

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Women coming into their own

It’s seems like one of the biggest cosmic jokes that women hit their sexual peak between 38 and 46, and for men, it’s all downhill after 19. I personally thing that men get better (and certainly know way more about women) as they get older.  But then, I’m not a cougar. However, being the hot…

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More thoughts on chemistry

I’ve been spending a great deal of time of late wondering about the elusive qualities of chemistry and attraction. What are the qualities that cause you to fall in love, in lust, or just spark off someone new? Why is it that after years of self awareness, and a good understanding of human relationships can…

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Women who love sex

I got a revised edition of Gina Ogden’s book "Women who love Sex", and remembered why I love this little tome. What a great thing it is to celebrate Women who want it. Without a slutty lable, well researched, fluid (a little clinical, not so raunchy), but great, great content. I am a woman who…

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