When you ask women about the top things they find sexy in a man, and you get a bunch of different answers. Things like great ass, smile, hands, attentive, good father, well dressed etc. But almost everyone of those women list a sense of humour in the top three. I think having wit, and…
DetailsI am very grateful for reproductive choices. I live in a country where I have access to free health care, and was able to get the best gynaecologist on the planet to tie my tubes without any fuss or fanfair. I can manage my own fertility, and have had the usual hassles with birth control…
DetailsI was reminded this weekend that everyone is unique and that sexuality is a fluid and never a "one size fits all" brush". You would think that given how many people with different issues that I treat, that the indiviual preference and variety of responses would be top of mind. But the cool thing about…
DetailsI’ve taken to buying a few more books of erotic literature lately. Mainly short stories, (light bedtime reading), and a few "grown-up fairy tales" tops the list of recent purchases. Creative, well-written erotica will get me hotter than any porn movie ever has. Like most women, I’m turned on by what I hear, and imagine…
DetailsIt’s seems like one of the biggest cosmic jokes that women hit their sexual peak between 38 and 46, and for men, it’s all downhill after 19. I personally thing that men get better (and certainly know way more about women) as they get older. But then, I’m not a cougar. However, being the hot…
DetailsI’ve been spending a great deal of time of late wondering about the elusive qualities of chemistry and attraction. What are the qualities that cause you to fall in love, in lust, or just spark off someone new? Why is it that after years of self awareness, and a good understanding of human relationships can…
DetailsAs a kid I was a big X-men fan. I’m dating myself, but I remember the first Marvel X-men comic issue, (way better than Spidey), and even as a kid, thought Wolverine was very interesting. Loved Hugh Jackman in the X-men movie, I thought he was perfectly cast, he was so sexy. His claws could…
DetailsThe thing about being a sex therapist is that people pull you aside at parties to ask you advice. If its a quick question, I’m happy to help. Well usually. It’s the guys who see me in the grocery store that want to shoe me the sores that have broken out after last week’s romp…
DetailsI have a few friends and patients (almost all men), who need some advice on making the connection, and meeting the right woman. The thing is, I see them all making the same simple mistakes that keep them from being in a relationship. Good guys, all of them. I tell them to watch the scent…
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