The girl’s bisexual continuum

I was told a story recently from a married women, out with her husband at a bar she didn’t usually frequent, who found herself dirty dancing with a lesbian tradeswoman to the delight of her husband and the rest of the bar. She said it was liberating to be that free and open with another…

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THE LURE OF LINGERIE

Spent some more money on lingerie yesterday.  I’m a bit depraved on the subject. I gave away chests of the damn stuff after my kids were born when my body completely changed sizes in every way, but have found recently I can’t close my underwear drawer again.  And passing the new selection of fall bras…

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80 year old hot sex

I want to be old and still very sexy. I was presenting yesterday at the annual Stroke Survivors on Sex after Stroke about what you can do to keep it hot after you experience a stroke, and options for sexual functioning if you are differently abled. I also sang the song I made up about…

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sex and crying

The biggest difference between counselling men and women in my office is the amount of kleenex I go through. Men  seldom cry during therapy, and if they do, a hug and reassuring word and most of the time all is well. If I have a week of women patients in my office, then I need…

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More conversations by the campfire

Sitting around another campfire last night. This one where everyone in the group was naked (more on that later this week as I explore my inner nudist), but as the conversation drifted to weekend gynaecology from the guys sitting around, a universal truth struck me that will no doubt resonate. It doesn’t matter what you…

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Duck sex

It’s summer in the city, and I have been doing my cardio along the Ottawa River parkway instead of a sweaty gym in the mornings. The river is beautiful as the sun comes up and I walk/jog and make friends with the wildlife.  Actually it’s more walk, pant, gasp and do penace for the chocolate…

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An orgasm by definition…

I have a few female patients who visit me because of their struggle to reach orgasm. Man, you’ve gotta feel for them. I don’t climax climbing stairs, but let’s just say that I’ve had close encounters with  dryers vibrating quickly, and western riding saddles among many, many other things. A daily occurance in my life,…

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