Women, lube, libido, and chocolate

I know I’ve written about the sexual wonders of chocolate before, but I think chocolate is as necessary as lubricant when having sex with women. I think all women need lube regularly – different times of the month, or stage of life will present a different type of wetness – no matter how turned on…

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Out of town sex or Mistress 101 part 2

So what do you do if you’re a travelling business guy trying to find some out-of-town-sex with integrity? Escorts, rub and tug parlors, offer a quick release but with no follow through, and for a thinking man, they can be very unsatisfying. Swing clubs rarely let in single men, and "a girl in every port"…

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Patti’s cleavage

My friend Patti has this cool new blackberry.  More bells and whistles than mine, (can you tell I’m envious) and she has a camera that allows her to take pictures she can email immediately.  She told a group of us tonight (and gave me permission to tell the world) that she when she was feeling…

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There are cougars prowling

I   have a number of girlfriends who have recently hooked up with much younger men. Hot, sexually open, and much younger.  In the online dating world, the Mrs. Robinson comments abound as young men intheir early and mid 20’s actively pursue 40 year old women. I  asked one of them what was the appeal…

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A few words about love

I’ve been pondering the difference between love and lust – the mass of phermones, and organic chemicals that turns your brain to mush, and your legs to rubber. I’ve loved a few men, and think I’ve even been in love briefly once or twice. I’ve been hurt, helped negotiate a few divorces in private practices,…

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the power of dopamine

Ask any woman about the power of hormones. Every month fertile women are given on on upfront and personal look at how our biochemistry controls behaviour. Men have the same problem, only its constant, and is what gets them out to bars on a Saturday night. In a new relationship, dopamine is the “feel good”…

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