Okay, so you’re quick. A little fast off the mark. A one-minute guy, finish-before-you-want-to, are too fast out of the gate, or otherwise have a condition known as premature ejaculation.
You are in excellent company. Statistics say 25% of men, or one in four guys can’t sexually last as long as they would like to. That’s over a billion men worldwide. Every fourth guy is like you and only pretend to be the lover they claim they are, yet only a few of them seek help. All those guys bragging about their size in the locker room probably didn’t know how to use it. The guys that claim to last all night often have the opposite problem, are experiencing Retarded Ejaculation, or have difficulties finally climaxing. And you can’t compare yourself with porn starts, those guys are professionals- it’s their big party trick, those guys are mutants. Have you ever seen Ron Jeremy. The guy’s not the most attractive guy in any room but learned to use what God gave him. You can too.
Relax, soon women will call you studly. They will throw themselves at your feet. They will pass out your number to their girlfriends and write your name with exclaimation marks on bathroom walls. Or your one and only partner will go around with a permanent smile on her face. Poetry will be written about you. You will be able to control your ejaculation. You will skip when you walk to work.
My download and the new product Order Promescent is going to explain how it is really how you use the package that’s important (not the size, and not your six pack abs, or your great charms), but your focus and concentration that will turn you into the lover you have always wanted to be. And turn your sweetie into a greasy puddle on the floor. She’ll thank you, and thank you and thank you.
Premature ejaculation, also known as rapid ejaculation, or by the Latin term ejaculatio praecox, is the most common sexual problem in men, characterized by a lack of voluntary control over ejaculation. It means that you can’t stop from climaxing shortly after penetration.
Other sex therapists and books say premature ejaculation is defined “as the occurrence of ejaculation prior to the wishes of both sexual partners.”
“This broad definition thus avoids specifying a precise duration for sexual relations and reaching a climax, which is variable and depends on many factors specific to the individuals engaging in intimate relations. An occasional instance of premature ejaculation might not be cause for concern, but, if the problem occurs with more than 50% of attempted sexual relations, a dysfunctional pattern usually exists for which treatment may be appropriate.”
That’s therapist speak for coming too fast, and before you and your partner want to, in more than 50% of the time.
To clarify, a male may reach climax after 8 minutes of sexual intercourse, but this is not premature ejaculation if his partner regularly climaxes in 5 minutes and both are satisfied with the timing.
Catch that – the kicker is that premature ejaculation is defined in relation to your partner. I can reach orgasm quickly (there are perks to a lifetime of studying sex), and if my partner gets in a rhythm – even if he’s fast- I can usually get there. It’s about the information – you learned to walk, to talk, to skate backwards (hey, I still can’t do that), but when you practise sexual skills, wonder of wonder, you get better.
The average guy lasts no more than 7 minutes from penetration to ejaculation.
I’m not kidding, seven whole minutes of acual boffing, sinking-it-to-the-nuts, driving it home, intercourse. WhoHoo! Break out the champagne, celebrate heartily 7 whole minutes. For women seven minutes, and I’m just getting warmed up. If you’ve been left hanging everytime you had sex how excited would you be to repeat the experience time and time again? Not only that, but you’ve got to clean up, have another bath, deal with leaking down the inside of your leg, and smelling skunky for the rest of the day for a few minutes of sweaty banging that leaves you frustrated!!!!! That’s the experience of the average quicky seven minute boff for most women. If sh’e in the throes of orgasm that quickly she’s either one of the 25% that can climax easily through intercourse, or she’s faking it to save your feelings.
If premature ejaculation is not lasting long enough to satisfy your partner, would you considered premature if you take 20 minutes to climax, but your partner needs 45? I would define premature ejacualtion as not having control over your own body and its responses. I think that premature men are primarily frustrated because they don’t have any control over their bodies. You can wiggle your toes, slow down your breathing, do abdominal crunches until girls call you AB boy, but if you have no say when you are going to blow and reach the big O, then you can end up feeling like the 98 pound weakling.
If the average amount of time is 7 minutes (from sliding in, to the apres sex cigarette), then how many guys last less thn one or two minutes? Based on the thousands of guys I see in my practise and have spoken to on my show, I think more than 50% of men climax in seven minutes or faster.
The truth is that in up until about the 18th century, being premature was an advantage. You could get in there, deposit your sperm and impregnate some Sultan’s daughter and be out of there before they came looking for your head. Being premature meant you were more likely to be called Daddy. And if knocking someone up is like winning the genetic lottery, than the premature guys had the leg up so to speak. That survival technique was passed down to you, and there is a significant argument that premature men have a genetic predisposition. Which means your dad, your grandpa, and your great-great-great grandfather were also one minute men.
However, given that we are in the 21st century, and not in some cave somewhere, and modern birth control means that sex is mainly for pleasure rather than for procreation, something has to be done to get you lasting longer. Women are way, way, way more sexually hip than they have ever been in history, and if you can’t cut it, you’ll be left with your pants down around your ankles wondering what the hell happened as she replaces you with her vibrator. Scary thought huh?
I’m here to help. Hell, if they can send a man to the moon, I, Susie sex therapist, can figure out how to get men to last longer. It’s my mission in life (besides doing my share to keep up the national sexual average, sampling my share of chocolate and fastasizing about The Rock….)
Give the product a try and I’ll send you free my download on Premature Ejaculation which is in essence Sex Therapy in a quick download. My patients pay over $1000 to see me privately for this information. The download alone costs $50. So instead you get a guaranteed product, AND the free download all for the cost of the product.
Give it a try. I want you to succeed and I want it to be affordable for you to last longer. I consider it a public service.